I did hear Frankie saying to Jocasta in the fire room one night that he was confused by the guys in the house and very openly talked about Zach's being "curious" and his confusions about Cody. On a side note - my gay-dar went off on BOTH Zach and Cody within the first 24 hours...but anyway...not the point. While you don't hear it addressed within the house THAT often, the feeders (#BBLF) and Big Brother After Dark viewers (#BBAD) are definitely abuzz with talks of the many, many man-piles we find about the house this season.
Now before you go all crazy on me telling me cuddling is supportive in the #BB16 house and that man on man cuddling is something enjoyed by gay and straight men alike, just stop. I understand, a great number of men on facebook have repeatedly chastised our comments concerning what we consider unusual man on man activities MANY of the HGs are participating in...okay, we get it, you guys love cuddling. Point heard and noted...but this video clip is MORE than the usual cuddling...and I challenge ANY of the readers, here or on facebook, to say a straight man would be okay with what we see here! If this doesn't prove Caleb Reynolds to be bi-sexual I don't know what would. NO STRAIGHT MAN would allow this! Simple as that, Caleb - straight men don't want gay men fiddling around with their dicks! There I said it! Bi-sexual men would be cool with it I'm sure, but an actual heterosexual man WOULD NOT!
Frankie playing with Calebs crotch by mikethelegend
While Frankie diddles around with Caleb's man parts, Caleb not only allows it, but seems to enjoy it immensely.
Aside from his general rotten personality, Amber's gay-dar was likely going off the charts during her stay in the house too. Remember, even on the Big Brother Live Feeds, we only get 2 to 3 rooms on at any given time, and believe me, the people IN the house are seeing much, MUCH more of this behavior than we will ever be privy to witnessing.
But now understanding that Caleb Reynolds is NOT a heterosexual man, it begins to make some sense in other areas of his personality and behaviors. For example, Caleb is as guilty as Devon ever was of talking down to the women. (By the way, Devon - gay-dar flashing pink and purple baby -- all those tender moments between he and Caleb by the hot tub...oh yeah.) I could never understand why Caleb acted the way he did about and to the girls, yet dares calls himself romantic based solely on the idea he was willing to screw his own game or put a candle on a table. Seriously? Here's a candlelight table for us, now sit there and look pretty and only speak when spoken to? Yeah -- never sounded romantic to me either Amber.
The fact that Caleb hasn't "come out of the closet" yet could also account for some of his over-bearing, look-at-me, I'm a man's man, I hunt, I beat, I kill chest pounding that goes on. Many men that haven't come out of the closet yet (and yes, I have known many MANY to draw this experience from), feel the need to show off just how manly they are. I believe they think that by coming off as a tough guy they won't "look like" they're gay. Now, the rest of us out here all know that this is based on a stereotypical view of gay men and the assumption that they all present themselves like Frankie, but this is not the case. Therefore, this form of "straight man camouflage" doesn't REALLY work...but it seems to make some of them feel as if it does.
And his relentless pursuit of Amber? Yes, another form of straight man camo. Ask any woman that has dated and she'll have a story about a guy she dated, married, or slept with that later came out of the closet as gay or bi-sexual. And the very term "bi-sexual" says they are equally attracted to both men AND women, so don't try to say that because he behaved irrationally about Amber that it means he is straight, because you don't have a leg to stand on.
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